Grooming often looks like a pattern; not a single moment. When you notice a pattern, report it early.
Favoritism
Special attention, gifts, privileges or access
Secrecy
“Don’t tell you parent/director” language
Isolation
Finding reasons to be alone or out of view
Private Access
Personal messaging, late-night contact, secret channels
Boundary Testing
Gradually increasing physical/emotional closeness
Role Confusion
Acting more like a peer, best friend, or confidant